Gateway Page -> Personality -> Do you take conflict personally?->The TCP Scale

INSTRUCTIONS : For each statement, please respond in terms of how you generally feel after having an argument with someone. Check the correct button by using the following scale:

   5 = I strongly agree, 4 = I agree, 3 = I am neutral, 2 = I disagree, 1 = I strongly disagree

Please answer all questions to get an accurate rating from this test.

1. I usually take criticisms personally.

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2. Conflict can really help a relationship.

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3. I really hate to argue with people I don't know very well.

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4. I hate arguments.

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5. Conflict is a very personal thing for me.

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6. When people criticise something I say, I don't take it personally.

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7. Sometimes you can discover admirable features in a person who is arguing strongly.

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8. It really hurts my feelings to be criticised.

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9. Conflict can really hurt a relationship.

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10. In conflict discussions I usually feel that other people are trying very hard to make sure that I lose.

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11. A deep conflict can really bring people together after it's over.

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12. I think that some of the people I often have conflict discussions with really like to pick on me.

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13. Conflict is an intensely enjoyable kind of interaction.

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14. Conflict discussions can really strengthen working relationships with other people in the group.

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15. Conflicts have a positive impact on a relationship.

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16. I don't like to be in conflict situations

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17. Conflict situations leave me feeling victimised.

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18. Conflict discussions can really joepardise working relationships with other people in the group.

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19. Conflict discussions can really strengthen relationships.

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20. I really hate to argue with friends.

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21. Sometimes when there are a lot of conflicts in a week, I feel like I'm getting an ulcer.

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22. The honesty that often results from a conflict situation can lead to stronger relationships between people.

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23. Conflicts are not stressful for me.

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24.  Stressful discussions make my stomach hurt.

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25. Conflict discussions can really jeopardise friendships.

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26. When the rest of the group rejects one of my suggestions, I take it very personally.

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27. After a stressful meeting, my day is usually ruined.

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28. To me, it's fun to argue.

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29. If you make a bad suggestion, people think you are stupid.

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30. Arguing is not very stressful to me.

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31. Conflicts have a negative impact on a relationship.

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32. It doesn't bother me to be criticised for my ideas.

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33. A conflict can really wreck the climate in the workplace.

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34. I often enjoy my conflicts.

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35. Conflict situations make me feel persecuted.

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36. I have a strong emotional reaction to being criticised.

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37. I think that people often attack me personally.

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The scores  appear in the text-boxes below the submit button after all the questions have been answered and the responses have been submitted.

YOUR DIRECT PERSONALISATION SCORE IS   ( RANGE 7-35 )  Interpretation

YOUR PERSECUTION FEELINGS SCORE IS ( RANGE 6-30 )   Interpretation

YOUR STRESS REACTION SCORE IS ( RANGE 5 -25 ) Interpretation

YOUR POSITIVE RELATIONAL EFFECTS SCORE IS ( RANGE 7-35 ) Interpretation

YOUR NEGATIVE RELATIONAL EFFECTS SCORE IS ( RANGE 5 -25 ) Interpretation

YOUR LIKE-DISLIKE VALENCE SCORE IS ( RANGE 7-35 ) Interpretation

 

 

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